Dear reader my friend Adri is driving me nuts. She is doing things I don’t agree with, it’s her life and she can do as she pleases but I don’t have to like it. I have told her every piece of advice I can think of but nothing helps.
If I hear “that’s true, I agree but I don’t know” one more time I swear that I will scream. For the love of everything, no one knows how everything ends before it starts. I have run out of things to say to her on other subjects.
She doesn’t like anything that I do. She likes to go clubbing and drinking neither of which I do. She goes through guys like crazy but wants to settle down. I am just fed up.
I feel like I am loosing her as a friend but I can’t bring myself to fix it. Also I waited for when she had a bf and now that I have a friend she is pissed. I can’t stand to hear “I know, but what do I do?” Insert advice here “I know, but what do I do?” *head desk*
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Hello miss,
I’ve been in your situation with one of my closest friends. He started getting into the “Show” scene and started taking some pretty intense drugs. I talked to him and talked to him and he would agree, but it seemed like what I was saying was going in one ear and out the other. Eventually he started dating girls that where into the same things and enabling him… I talked to him about that as well, but the encountered the same results. I finally realized, that, while I did love the kid, I couldn’t control what he was doing and I couldn’t continue to preach to him about how he was doing the wrong things because it seemed to make him want to listen even less. Long story short, I stopped talking to him about these things all the time and let him make his mistakes. I still hung out with him when he was available, but we didn’t even bring up the subject. He did eventually come to the same conclusion considering his destructive life style that I had come to, but it took him figuring it out on his own. Sorry for such a long comment. I hope it works out for you 🙂
Thanks for the comment. I just feel bad because we really have nothing in common anymore 😦