Just heard back from my ex in an e-mail that in order for him to file the divorce papers for us in TX where he now lives there’s a waiver I have to sign first.
He tells me that to get the waiver you need a lawyer which is too much money for him(Hey he is paying for this so he can mary his baby-momma) so he says he is going to have me served out here in CA, which he says is free.
I wrote him back and thanked him for his time and for filing them for us(You have to be thankful for everything with him or he turns evil on you).
I then asked him the timeframe in which I should expect someone so I can make sure someone is home that can open the door for them(Stupid CP for making my legs not work…Makes it impossible for me to open doors unless I have someone to put me in my chair first). I will let you know what he says back dear reader as soon as I know.
I think this might throw off my timetable of being free by November of this year but we shall see what happens dear reader.
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I’m having mixed emotions on this. On one hand, you seem like you really want to get away from this guy for good but at the same time, my parents got divorced recently so I know it’s not an easy process. Good Luck!
I have no kids with him any other man. He cheated on me at least 3 times that I am aware of, and he has 2 kids with another woman. I can do nothing nor do wish to do anything to be back with him he put me through he’ll.
In that case, good riddance to him!
He also threatened me and was very controlling. I lost two jobs that I was physically able to do because he believed I would cheat on him. This is almost 3 years of pain and worry just from the divorce.
Oh wow! I’m sorry to hear that :(. 3 years! man.
He wouldn’t sign the papers for the first 2. He didn’t want to marry the girl he left me for then she left to marry her ex and he got another girl pregnant twice and she is pushing for the divorce to marry him and he told me that he will cheat on her but never leave because of their kids. He can’t keep it in his pants
Mm. Mm. Mm. That is so…I can’t even find the word for it. I really feel that I should something more than this but really, all I can hope to comfort you is to keep on keeping on. Things happen for a reason. Trust God in all you do and you will make it through. This all just sucks and I can’t pretend I know exactly how you feel but I’ve seen something similar happen to someone else. But that is just one twisted story! I wish you (and him…I think) the best! Keep in touch! Well, rather, I’ll be in touch with you and your blog
He moved the first girl into our home and gave her my clothes and had sex with her in the shower where I could hear it from our bed in our bedroom(the bathroom had a door that opened right into our room) and do nothing about it.
So, have you moved away from him, yet? Are you happy, now?
Yes I am away from him and more happy then I have been in a long time: ).
That’s Excellent! 🙂