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Dear reader I just got done talking to my mother-in-law and she says that if I want her to she will talk to my ex about what his plans for our divorce papers are, she knows all the background to my ex and I.

I told her that if I am still in this situation next December then I will ask for her help.

She really is an awesome person I hope my next mother-in-law is as awesome as she is: ).

She even told me that I should wait for him to handle the papers and just relax about it as much as I can.

I really do believe that something will change about this situation soon, something has to give at some point.

I do feel like I made peace with telling her that I feel my ex needs help even if he isn’t with me. He doesn’t deserve to be treated the way he is.