Dear possible new guy:

I totally understand the reasons behind your attitude in regards to finding a future girlfriend and I respect you’re right to feel that way.

I had the same attitude towards finding a new boyfriend and not wanting to get hurt, however now that I have seen how it feels to be on the other side of this attitude I now know that I personally have to change my own attitude if I want to find love again at some point in the future.

I now thanks to you know that I personally will have to be more open minded about being with someone(No one likes the hurry up and wait game) .

I am personally going to trust the person(when I find them) instead of putting them through a whole bunch of tests in effort not to be hurt.

Please don’t get me wrong I plan to still ask questions for compatibility purposes, however at some point if the person is ready to be in a relationship with me and the compatibility is good I will say yes and trust it to work out.

I really am thankful to you because I don’t think I would have changed my beliefs and behavior in regards to this if not for you.

I hope we both find whoever we are looking for.

– Me