Dear reader my best friend Adriana keeps calling me complaining over and over again about her husband.

He left her and cheated on around the same time my ex hubby cheated on me.

He now has two kids with the girl He cheated on her with. She is giving him a year to try and work things out. This is the second time the’ve tried to work things out.

She keeps telling me she is having doubts about him but she is pretty much saying she’ll say with him now matter what.

In my opinion if you’re not going to change the situation then you lose the right to complain about it.

I have told her I feel the same way about myself.

If I ever reason get back with my ex hubby. No one on my FB would know and the only place I would vent about it is here because no offence dear reader you all don’t see me or judge my daily life.

I know that if I got back with my ex I would have to deal with his cheating and drama because it’s just who he is. I lose the right to complain.

I just hate the complain complain complain, I don’t know about X, I might do X, 50 reasons I am not really going to do X, but I might do X, I give reasons to do X to prove to myself she will never ever do X and she gets mad and hangs up the phone.

I think it really comes down to the fact that I am not going backwards. I am doing my best to move forward and she is going back to being with her ex. I know for a fact that if I got back with my ex she would have my opinion.

Side note: I even told her I would not told her tell her when/if I got back with my ex because I don’t want to hear anyone’s opinion on it.