I don’t understand

Dear reader one of my friends just got married about a year ago and she is having so many issues already.

She told me she hasn’t told him that much about herself and she lied to him about some things.

I personally don’t understand how you can marry someone without telling them things about you and making sure that there is trust between you.

I was really open with my ex hubby and have been with everyone since because I never want to hear:

“If I’d have known x about you I never would have done it.” I truly believe that the truth about a person always comes out and hiding and lying is never a good start to anything, much less a marriage.
I am trying to give her advice and it doesn’t seem to be working. I feel like I am the main person holding her together right now and she wants a miracle and I don’t know if I can pull one out of my hat so to speak.

Tell me what you think.

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