Dear reader the following is an FYI to any guy who is curious about dating me:

Dear possible guy: I just wanted to take this time to let you know that just because I am in a wheelchair doesn’t mean I am breakable I promise.

I can have sex and enjoy it if you’re willing to help me get onto and off of the bed and in and out of my clothes.

I have never had any guy(3 so far) that I have had sex with ever complain that I wasn’t good, I have had them said my sex drive was too high for them.

I have never had, nor do I ever intend to have sex with a guy that I am not in a serious relationship with first, I take my body and heart seriously you can’t have one without the other.

I am loyal to a fault, I have never cheated. Yes I am not divorced yet but you have to understand my ex hubby left me in CA and moved to TX I haven’t seen him in person since 2010.

He is being an ass about the divorce papers and his baby momma is crazy. This means I need a guy who would be willing and able to help me physically get to the court house to file the paper work. I will pay the cost of the fees on my own.

I can’t have kids I got my tubes tied in 2009(Dr said yes and did it because of my chair) so if you want kids at any point Please keep moving. I don’t want kids because I can’t physically take care of them and run after them when needed as I would like to.

If you have issues with helping me physically(picking me up, helping me dress) then please keep moving.

I know it’s a lot to care for me however if you want a girl who is honest, loyal, faithful, down to play video games with you(PS4), can hold her own at blackjack, craps, and Texas hold ‘Em then maybe I am the girl you’ve been looking for.

I want to have a guy I can cheer on as he helps makes his dreams come true, do you own a business or work somewhere where you need help with basic office work(filing papers, and the like) and you can help me get to and from the bathroom then I am down to work and help you. 

I don’t need expensive things however I will be very honest with you and say you need to work because I can’t really work most jobs because my chair(need physical help getting on and off the bathroom) gets in the way and both of us homeless serves no one.

It also helps if you like to cuddle:)

– Me.