Note to reader: The following is MY Own Personal list of what I want/need in a boyfriend, I understand you have a right to disagree with anything on my list however you are no obligation to be my boyfriend or to fulfill these requirements.

I am just writing this to vent and to put out there what I am looking for. No more no less. If by some chance you feel like you would like to get to know me then by all means comment on this post and we will see if I can meet your requirements as well.

Things I want/need in a boyfriend:

1. I want a guy who is ok and willing to deal with my chair and the fact that I need physical help(I.E. getting dressed into and off the bed, my chair, and toilet) without throwing the fact that I need help in my face. If your back is messed up please keep looking.

2. Someone who is mentally stable(My ex hubby was on meds from a Dr for being mentally unstable) and I can’t take the walking on egg shells.

3. Someone who is straight and doesn’t want to have sex with other people or share me sexually.

4. Someone who doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them. I made the choice to get my tubes tied in 09 because I can’t physically take care of myself let alone a child.

5. Someone who likes to play video games, I am a gamer girl with my PS4 and I need a guy who understands that(harder to find than you might think)…You point I punch.

6. Someone who wants to have sex with me and understands that just because I am in a wheelchair doesn’t mean that I can’t feel my body and enjoy sex. I have been left because I have “too high of sex drive”.

7. I need a guy who is dominate in the bedroom and likes to tell me what to do and talk dirty, however outside of the bedroom he knows I can hold my own.

8. Someone who is funny and caring.

9. Someone who is a thinker and can hold a conversation.

10. Someone who is down to play some black Jack or craps with me at the casino(I will share if I win).

11. Someone who likes to cuddle and show affection.

12. Someone who is ok with the fact that I am Pagan or is spirituality open themselves.

13. Someone who is in California or is willing to move to CA because my family and house is out here and will be hopefully soon be made wheelchair friendly.

14. Someone who wants something long-term.

PS. I will give the right guy contact information and a pic of myself If we click and he promises me that he will keep my blog and information to himself.