Note to reader: The following post is just about me talking about something that is on my mind, I am sorry if it’s rambling. As always these are just my own personal thoughts/Opinions.

Dear reader I was just randomly thinking about how I am loyal to my family(brother, sister, dad,) and friends even if we have issues currently or in the past, when shit comes down to it I have their backs.

I don’t think that you can teach someone the core of loyalty(when you’re back is up against the wall together you pick them, you help them) you either know what it is and how to practice it or you don’t.

I personally believe that some people when it comes down to it will always put themselves and their own needs first.

I get that in a sense to because of basic self-preservation however their have been times in my life where I have backed up people and faced the consequences, Yes I admit dear reader that they weren’t life or death situations however they were still big situations in my life all the same.

At my core loyalty is the biggest deal to me if I can’t trust someone to have my back when stuff goes down then I just can’t deal with them.

Also my loyalty isn’t conditional and I know that this might not make sense to you dear reader, As an example of my point:

My ex husband and I have been split since April of 2011 yes we have been with other people since(He cheated on me a lot, check out the “Ending” tab of my blog if you’re curious all of the divorce stuff is there) however I will help him still I could because I promised.  We said we would be loyal to each other unless one of us cheated which he did.

Ramble over.