Note to reader: The following post is ONLY me venting my own personal feelings/thoughts about this situation.

Dear reader one of my ex boyfriends got ahold of me earlier tonight via FB message/friend request.

I know that this will seem crazy however it actually happened:

I met him in late 2010 via the girl who my ex husband cheated on me with, he was friends her with because they grew up together, she put the phone in my hand one night while he was on it to try to get us together.

I did get with him for a few months that year because I was in a really bad situation and I wanted comfort.

He always had excuses for all of his issues(not wanting to work etc) we broke up because he kept trying to get money out of me. (He also asked me to give him money to pay for the rent for a girl who he liked because I broke up with him needless to say I told him no dear reader).

It’s 5 years later and he still asked me for help because another girl broke up with him, I blocked him because I don’t want to be used again.

I personally can’t date/be with a guy who doesn’t have dreams or ambitions.

I personally have seen a lot change in my life in the last 5 years, I have learned the hard way that you have to take several small steps to change things you can’t expect someone to come and save you just because you’re board or you don’t want to do anything.

Rant over.