Note to reader: The following post is NOT in ANY way about the readers of this blog, 99.9 percent of the response to me on this blog for the past almost 3 years now have been amazingly kind and loving and I am beyond thankful for you guys now and always. This post is about my own personal experience with a website that I am currently on hoping to find a significant other. The website shall not be named herein for personal reasons.

Dear reader I personally don’t understand why people would send me hate messages telling me that I am not what they are looking for and I need to change. One person even said and I am paraphrasing a bit, because you’re not what I am looking for I feel like I will never find a girlfriend. Or “why won’t you date me girls in wheelchairs are supposed to be desperate”.

Especially when/if I haven’t messaged them before or had any prior contact with them.

I would personally never message a guy after reading his profile and seeing that he’s not what I want/I am not what he looks for or wants (judging by what he wrote on his profile about what he likes, dislikes, etc) and say “why can’t you change.

I just move on to the next person. I know that not everyone is going to like or be a match for me and that I am not going to be liked or be a match for every guy either.

I would rather spend my time and effort to find the guy who is what I want than to waste time on hate messages.

Rant over.