Dear reader the guy who I *met*(we have done a few Skype calls, and texting) via the “dating site” that I am on(I mentioned him in a “Things I am thankful for today” post a few days ago) was telling me that he thinks that we could possibly be something more later on however since he is an executive chef for a chain of restaurants his job keeps him super busy.

He is currently in Chicago(for those who don’t already know I am in Southern California) and in a few weeks to a month he more than likely will be going to Tokyo for a business trip.

We have a lot of stuff in common and yes dear reader he is ok with my wheelchair and he knows about my life currently and all of my current drama with my ex husband(Check out the ” Ending” tab of my blog if you’re curious about the backstory to my divorce stuff) and he doesn’t care.

However he doesn’t want me to get attached/hurt (if you have been with me on this journey then you know how my heart works/the recent love life drama that I have had to deal with) if we never get to see each other that much, even though he wants to visit me if he is ever in the area(I will let you know if/whenever that happens) and to be completely honest with you dear reader he has also said that he wants to spoil me with things occasionally. 

I told him that it’s not necessary and I will not do sexual favors in return for things however if he still wants to send me gift cards for books or something(He can send them to me via email or something like that without needing my address) I won’t turn it down.  So far he hasn’t given me anything and I am just really happy to be talking to him.

It just makes me sad that the first guy I have talked to off of the “dating site” that so far hasn’t lied to me(that I know of), asked me for weird sexual stuff, or just plain disappeared(at least not yet) is probably someone who because of situational stuff won’t be able to be in a relationship with me.

PS. I know to never say never because you never know what the future brings and I promise to keep you updated on everything as soon as I know more about anything that happens between us. Side note I am currently not talking to anyone else besides him that I can see myself with romantically.