Note to reader: I am writing this post while currently in the middle of a panic attack, I am writing this post to help me calm down and focus. The backstory to my divorce stuff can be found in the “Endings” tab of my blog if you’re curious about it.

Dear reader my ex husband’s baby mama just wrote me via FB message asking me to help my ex husband and her with a money situation that he appears to need my signature on because we are currently still legally married.

They don’t have the money/time to send me out the paperwork for this so they said they can have him sign for me if I give consent via email.

I am going to do it because I don’t want any drama however if I ever have issues like this(which I have in the past) it’s always been “figure it out” which translates to going without because she doesn’t want us to have any contact with each other or for him to help me at all.

I know that in the end it will all pay off when I am DONE with this situation however it doesn’t make it any easier to handle right now.

Dear reader having you here to vent to means more to me than I can ever truly explain ♡. I promise to keep you updated on everything as soon as I know more.

Update: I guess he can’t sign it for me legally because of Delaware laws (where he lives) I offered to PayPal him some money back that he gave me years ago but she said no.

I realize now more than ever that some people will just never see things from my point of view and sometimes you have to call things even by yourself. In other words I personally don’t feel like I owe him anything anymore.