Maternal instincts are not for everyone

I made the choice to get my tubes tied (With DR ok) due to my chair and I get judged for it a lot so I can really relate to this post.

Shattering Perceptions

I am a mother of one. She is a college student now. I had my tubes tied when she was a year old, and I have never regretted this choice. Yet when many others find this out, there is usually these moments of surprise and panic, a constant questioning of how I could make that choice and what if I had wanted another, and how could I do that to myself. There is never an assumption that I am sure what I want, that I would know my own body, or that I might actually know myself. A woman’s body is always assumed default to the common “norm” of society and anything different from that is an abnormality.

What I did for myself and my child was make the choice that was right for me and allowed me to be the best parent to my child that I could. Oddly…

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OK, Apparently life wants me to post about this so I will, Fair Warning some may not like this.

I really did think I was going to get off here and try to sleep apparently life wants me to post one more thing first so I will. Fair warning some may not/will not like what I am about to say, Please note the following are MY personal thoughts and are not meant to be …

Continue reading OK, Apparently life wants me to post about this so I will, Fair Warning some may not like this.