Please stop telling me what you’re not going to do.

Note to reader the following is about me venting about my best friend Adriana. I just need to get my feelings/emotions out.

Dear reader I had a lady about 4 years ago tell me:

“Stop telling me about what you’re not going to do, you’ll just get yourself stuck in your story.”

I really took this advice to heart. I do vent about certain things on here to get it out of my system but then it dies.

Adriana is driving me nuts talking about stuff she knows over and over again that she is never actually going to do.

Here is the latest example:

A guy from her past that she likes a lot found her again on Facebook about a week or so ago.

First argument should I cheat on my husband with him?(she has always been gf number two with this guy since they met)

But that’s so wrong. I don’t know what to do…. I don’t want bad Karma…

Fast forward to early today

She texts me that she told him she only wants to be with him if she is his only gf.

I tell her I am proud of her for sticking up for herself.

Earlier tonight She texts me a screenshot of their texts with him telling her he likes having two gfs.

Ok to me personally dear reader at this point it would be done because he told you what he wants it doesn’t add up with what you want so why keep going if you’re not with the person?

Instead she is still talking to me as if she is going to do something.

I have asked her over and over again if she is going to go after the guy she says no then not even two seconds later tells me I don’t know what I am going to do.


I guess it just really boils down to the fact that I don’t want to hear you think out loud.

It’s like in high school when you stay on the phone with a bunch of dead air and pauses.

I did yell at her a bit because she keeps saying I want your opinion but she never really does anything about it one way or another she just lets things happen because she doesn’t want to make a choice.

Life will happen with or without your choices. Something I have learned the hard way life doesn’t have a middle where you can sit safely and wait things out with no consequences one way or another.

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