How do I connect with you without the crazies?

Note to reader: The following post will be about me talking about my own personal experiences, I am NOT trying to judge anyone or group people together.

Dear reader I have noticed from my WordPress stats that my blog now has 400 followers and I would really love to be able to connect with you dear reader If you wished by e-mail however I have been cyber harassed(really hurtful and scary comments were made about my chair and coming to rape me since I can’t run away, Yes, dear reader that was an a actual comment on that blog from an anonymous person(they didn’t have to have a blog themselves to be able to comment on said site at that time) and stalked(my email was listed on my blog info and a lot of hurtful e-mails were sent) before on another blog I had a few years back so I am very very nervous about this happening  again if I use my personal email.

So far you all have been nothing but kind and it has deeply moved me. I still don’t get that my life is honestly interesting on some form or fashion to 400 people.

This blog and you dear reader have and are keeping me sane so I want to be able to be accessible to you however I need this blog for a lot of reasons to remain for the most part(except for my extra life Los Angeles Children’s hospital fundraising) not connected to my name because I know my family will not understand why I have this also the fact that it is anonymous helps me to feel safe and comfortable about being so open and honest which from what I have heard from your comments is what you like about me the most dear reader.

I have this fear that someone might find out my name from the email and blab about it just out of spite, I.E. an internet troll.

If you have any advice or if you’re interested in contacting me through e-mail because I know some people don’t like writing things in public comments please comment on this post to at least let me know if anyone is interested in this at all.

Thanks for your time dear reader: ).

2 thoughts on “How do I connect with you without the crazies?

  1. You need a contact page, where readers can send a message to your email without ever seeing your email. If they include their blog address and have a contact form, you never have to see each other’s email addresses. My contact page requires a reader’s email, but you wouldn’t have to require it. It would, however, allow you to be anonymous without allowing them to do so. If you respond to them by email, though, then all bets are off. You would need to respond back through their contact form or comments, and not include a valid email address for yourself, I guess, People can be so disgusting! But thankfully, others can be equally beautiful.

    1. Thanks for this advice it really does mean a lot to me. I just really want to be able to talk to my readers if they want to talk to me.

      I guess I just think it might be a way to pass your guys back for your kindness towards me if I was a bit more available to you.

      I just want you guys to know that I honestly appreciate you: ).

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