Note to Reader: The following post is ONLY about me getting out my thoughts on this subject and to write out my thoughts about it here to save it for later in case it’s some thing I would want to look back on later.
Dear reader a friend of mine that I met via Twitter a while ago that I talk to on the phone and who has become a close friend found a girl that he likes and she likes him and she has my same birthday(the crazy coincidence I mentioned in the title) I am honestly super happy for him that he’s found a person that he could possibly have a happy life with.
In case you’re curious we can’t date because he has heart issues and isn’t able to physically help me(if you don’t already know I’m physically disabled due to Cerebral Palsy), yes dear he knows about my chair and wants me to be with someone who can physically help me and I want him to have someone who can help him as well(house work, cooking etc). We also don’t live close to each other and I would have to move to him (if we got together) because he has to be close to a certain hospital for his heart and other medical care.
I honestly really want to find someone in California or who is already planning on moving here(so they wouldn’t be moving just for me).
I still think that it’s crazy that we have so much in common(not everything) and he is the type of guy I loved in high school(skinny, tall, gothic, funny,) and he found a girl with my same exact birthday who’s originally from California because there’s a belief that says that the Universe/Gods/Powers that Be will send you a person who is (for lack of a better way of phrasing it) is a “twin” of the person that you’re supposed to be with in order to get you ready/open to the idea of your main person so that your already comfortable with the main things about them so your less likely to push them away whenever they find you which is what I personally believe is/could be happening here somewhat on both sides for both him and myself.
Dear reader I was kinda worried about him being lonely if I found someone first since he for the most part keeps to himself and we talk a lot. He has become a part of my life and I feel like I’ve always known him. I really hope that it works out for him.
Another weird coincidence for their situation is that he recently got rid of his roommate and she looking to move anyway and she’s been playing on going to a concert where he lives(since before they met) so she asked him to go with her so that’s gonna be there first date(they’ve been talking for a while now already) it was like the Universe set it up perfectly.
I can’t wait to see how the Universe brings my guy and I together.
Thanks again for *listening* to me ramble dear reader and for staying on this journey with me. Your support means the world to me. I will keep you updated on if anything happens 😁.