Note to reader: The following post is going to be mostly about me talking about myself. As always I am not speaking for anyone other than myself and I am not judging anyone.
Dear reader I was just reading in a magazine about how some Hollywood stars are using dating applications like tinder and how many people have said yes to them and it made me think about my own personal online dating/dating experience and I realized that I am not nor will I ever be a “mass market product”.
I am NOT putting myself down by saying this next statement it’s just the truth:
I am in a wheelchair(I have CP, Cerebral Palsy) and most guys(NOT saying everyone) let alone people in general don’t really understand that people with disabilities are still people who have thoughts, feelings, and desires so I know that I don’t have “mass market appeal” I am “indie” and I like it because I don’t want a hot guy I want a guy who is honest, faithful, funny, who has dreams and goals just like I do, I want a guy who is a nerd like me.
I want different, I don’t want what everyone else wants.
In my life I am trying to make myself happy, if people like it(which judging by the fact that you’re reading this right now dear reader I am guessing that you do) than that I awesome and amazing however I am not trying to please everyone(Here’s a secret dear reader it’s impossible), I know deep down in my heart and soul that at some point in the future some man is going to love me flaws and all just like I will love him.
PS. You know how people say “they make such a cute couple”? Well dear reader I would rather have a man who matches my heart and not my face.